女人爱上男人的十大表现 (熊猫佳子)
English Translation by Chris from ChinaSmack.com
一、说话暧昧
When a woman loves has fallen in love with a man, she usually won’t take the initiative in pouring her heart out and saying “I love you,” and will instead send out subtle messages for you to detect. For example, while your group of young friends are on the way back from singing songs at the KTV, a girl suddenly says to you: “Can you help me keep this bag of milk warm?” At this time, men will certainly feel very puzzled, thinking: “Why is she asking me to help her warm [this milk]? And further, can the hands really warm it?” Actually, is already purposefully giving you a subtle message.
二、主动搭讪
2. Take initiative to strike up a conversation
三、嘘寒问暖
所以，如果事情向着相反的方向发展变化，那么我们看到是一个女人向男人嘘寒问暖，比如说：“你怎么就穿一件单衣啊？这么冷的天，你怎么这么叫人不省心啊？”这句话，看似是嘘寒问暖，实则是对你无限的关怀与爱护，这样的话只有妻子对丈夫说，她现在对你说了，里面暗含的潜台词，自然不言而喻。
3. Often ask about your well-being
It is without a doubt that all of us, whether meeting an old buddy or just a normal friend, all ask how one another are doing, making the kind of small talk that that has existed for ages that millions of people are familiar with to show our respect for each other. However, most of the time it is old men doing so without sincerity. So, if we see a situation developing in the opposite direction, and we see a girl fussing over a man, for example saying: “Why are you just wearing such little clothing? Such a cold day, how do you expect others not to worry?” may seem like just normal politeness, but in fact is her limitless love and concern for you. This is the kind of thing that only a wife says to her husband and for her to say it to you now, is the implications are naturally self-evident.
四、无中生有
同样的道理，女人喜欢上一个男人，会有许多让你意想不到的事情，在你身上发生。比如突然有女人对你问道，说：“你那天借给我的那本书什么时候还给你啊？我已经快看完了，不过还是想看下去，你还有没有别的什么书，像这样的类似别的什么的，都可以的。”这样的话，绝对让你丈二摸不着头脑。
4. Making something out of nothing
When a guy likes a girl, he will be so nervous his nose will bleed, uncontrollably, yet with just a few words, that girl can effortlessly stop the nosebleed that could not be stopped. This world is very strange, that there can be this kind of kung fu, it truly make us feel so powerless. Similarly, when a girl likes a boy, there will be quite a few things you could never imagine that will happen to you. For example, if a girl suddenly turn to you and ask: “When do you need me to return that book you lent me? I’m almost done but I’d like to read more, do you have any other books, like this, similar to this, others, whatever, anything is fine.” This sort of thing, definitely will make you puzzled.
所以，这样的距离很是让人模棱两可，就在这模棱两可中间，往往是神情恍惚出来主持公正。于是当你看见有人想一个女人说话时，她半天没有反应过来，正是此因作怪。
5. Trance-like expression
Some people say that whenever a girl likes a man, there is always something called hormones that will cause mischief, something secreted on a woman’s body, often causing trouble for women making them unable to control themselves. No matter matter how hard she tries, she will get closer to the man she likes. During this time, however, a girl can’t get too close or other people will suspect that their relationship isn’t proper. But if she is too far away, she won’t be able to smell that man’s mesmerizing scent. So, this kind of distance really makes things ambiguous, and in this state of ambiguity, a trance-like expression can be revealing. So when you see someone prompt a girl to talk and it takes forever for her to react, it is exactly that mischief at work.
但是如果是一个女人，柔弱女子的话，那么你的担心是多余的。那么这只有一种可能：她开始已经喜欢上你了。只是这样的喜欢还不太好说破，暗恋的前奏。
6. Attentively ask you questions
All along Chinese people have liked to ask about other people’s private affairs, asking about how this family’s kids got into trouble or why that family’s kid got into a fight. This is nothing to be surprised about, but when your friend tells you that there is often someone asking them about your life, your information and situation, you must not not always think this is just other people being nosy, especially if the other person is a man, because it may mean he has bad intentions and wants to ruin you. On the other hand, if it is a girl, a delicate girl, then your caution is unnecessary. With this, there is only one possibility: She has already begun to like you, only except she is not yet ready to say so, and is just a prelude to a secret love.
七、抛眉挤眼
每个女人都会用尽自己的浑身解数去紧紧抓住自己心中的那个白马王子，不惜千方百计地去追到手，花完了一切可以该花的消费。目的只有一个，用抛眉挤眼完成最后使命，虽然这是老生常谈的问题，但是有多少男人经得住这样的诱惑，回眸一笑百媚生，就是英雄也难过美人关。
7. Winking
After having used the many methods above, a woman starts to make use of a deadly weapon – winking. This is a an oft-used weapon of devastating power that women use, making even the most powerful men defenseless. Every girl will do everything she can to grab hold of her Prince Charming, sparing no effort and exhausting all her the resources she can spare. There is only one objective: to use her eyes to accomplish the final mission. Although this is an often-discussed problem, but how many men can take this kind of seduction? When a woman throws her head back at you like that, even a great hero would be distraught.
八、脸红害羞
如果说男人看到女人会紧张，会流鼻血是正常的见面礼。那么女人见到喜欢的男人会害羞的脸红，一直红到耳根，满脸绯红。恰似春天红透的番茄一样晶莹剔透，让你无限暇顾，充满眷恋之情。那么你这样就是绝对的上了女人的圈套了，因为《孙子兵法》上有一计叫 -欲擒故纵 -说的就是这个道理。
有时候，她可以一边退后，一边攻击你的防守最弱的地方，因为她总能从你的身上找到最佳的攻击位置，这是许多男人的纰漏之处。
8. A shy, red face
If we say a man gets nervous around a woman, that a nosebleed is a normal greeting gift he gives her, then a girl meeting a man she likes will be so shy that her face turns red, all the way to her ears, her entire face flushed, just like a bright shiny spring tomato making you full of sentimental feelings. You this way means you have absolutely fallen into women’s trap, because Sunzi’s “The Art of War” has a section that reads “Allow somebody more latitude at first to keep a tighter rein later on,” which talks about this very thing. Sometimes, she can fall back in retreat and attack your defenses’ weakest point at the same time, because she can always find your most weakest point on your body. This is many men’s biggest pitfall.
九、赠衣送物等到时机成熟，女人总是会为喜欢的男人买点东西，有时会是一件T恤衫，有时候会是一件外套，还有男人最为看重的手表。手表是男人的象征的岁月虽然已经过时，但是在现在女人的眼里，手表还是很好的意见贵重的礼物，因为接受的手表的男人已经心知肚明的知道，只是一件不同寻常的礼物，里面有许多寓意。包括一片真情在手表，所以顺理成章的开始了。
所以说，女人适当的适时的送给男人一些东西，男人会明白你对他许多情意的。
9. Giving gifts
When the time is right, a girl will always give gifts to a guy she likes. Sometimes it’s a T-shirt, other times it might be a coat, or maybe that thing that men put so much importance on, a wristwatch. As a symbol of a man’s age a wristwatch has already gone out of fashion, but in the eyes of today’s women, it’s still a great gift, because the men who receive a wristwatch already know that it is a very unusual/special gift packed full of meaning. Because the wristwatch includes the girl’s true feelings, it will be very natural for the relationship to begin. So, when a girl gives a man the something at the appropriate time, a man will understand that you have great affection for him.
十、当面撒娇
同样的道理，撒娇的女人最容易让男人有怜悯之心，这时女人俘获男人最让男人不能拒绝的方式与打击形式。比如说：“咱们去吃饭吧！”然后带上一些爹声奶气的语气词。再不然，如果你拒绝，她就拉着你的衣服角，摆来摆去，说：“去嘛！去嘛！就一会儿的！”怎么样，最后你还是去了不是。
10. “Sa jiao” [behaving like a spoiled child] in front of you
Women who act like spoiled children has been talked about many times. If we say this behavior is the mark of an open/loose woman, it seems a little like depriving other women of being able to do this. To put it another way, if you act like a spoiled child in front of the man you like then you’re already quite open enough. On the same note, a girl who knows how to act like a spoiled child can easily get pity from a man. This lets a woman defeat a man’s best defenses. For example, if you say “Hey let’s go eat!” and then add in a few whiny baby-like noises. Or, if you refuse still, she’ll grab you and pull your clothes and say “Let’s goooo, let’s goooo, just for a bit!” so in the end, you’ll end up going after all.
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